When is keto actually keto?

‘I have been living the keto lifestyle for a while now and I am also a happy member of quite a few online keto groups. Talking to like-minded people about keto is something I really enjoy and I also get a lot of useful information that way. But I do notice a lot of confusion and misunderstandings about what keto actually is. For me it is all about healthy eating. So why is it that I hear so many people claiming they are also doing keto while eating processed foods? Is there an easy way for me to explain the difference?

Daphne, 42

Great question! Different people, different ideas: there are many different theories on what a ketogenic lifestyle should look like. And truth be told, through my many years of studying and self-experimentation I have concluded there really is not one size fits all when it comes to keto.

While I do always teach people to start out with a low carb/moderate protein/high fat diet, there are plenty of variants one can experiment with when keto adaptation and metabolic flexibility are achieved. These variants do all have one thing in common though: they are about healthy unprocessed foods.

Misunderstanding

Because I am quite active myself online I understand what you are getting at with the confusion and misunderstandings in those groups. Arguments can get quite heated in fact. The biggest misunderstanding of all concerns the word ‘keto’ itself. While many people think it is short for ‘ketosis’, it is in fact short for ‘ketogenic’ and that term is about more than merely the state of ketosis.

So I have come up with a concise list that will help to explain the differences. Here goes:

A ketogenic lifestyle in general

Any ketosis inducing way of eating that eliminates all inflammatory, starchy, sugary and processed foods.

Strict ketogenic lifestyle

A ketosis inducing way of eating that eliminates all inflammatory, starchy, sugary and processed foods while staying between 20-30 grams net carbs and following personally calculated amounts for high fat and moderate protein.

A ketosis inducing way of eating that eliminates inflammatory, starchy, sugary and processed foods while staying between 20-30 grams net carbs and not counting fat or protein amounts.

Dirty keto (not considered a true ketogenic lifestyle)

A low carb way of eating that includes inflammatory, starchy, sugary and processed foods and without any counting of macros.

IIFYM keto (not considered a true ketogenic lifestyle)

Stands for ‘If It Fits Your Macros’, a low carb way of eating that includes inflammatory, starchy, sugary and processed foods while counting macros.

I hope this somewhat helps you to explain the differences to other people. Keep in mind however it may not convince them to see or do things differently, as I said above: different people, different ideas.

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Staying keto at a dinner party

dinner party

‘I am 6 weeks into my new keto lifestyle, things are going really well! I have lost some weight and I have loads of energy. I have even gone out to dinner a few times and managed to make good choices. But I am in a bit of a pickle right now. I am invited to a dinner party at a friend’s house. She does not know about my change in lifestyle, I do not talk to her that often.

I really want to go to this dinner
. It will be so lovely to catch up with her and some other friends, but I am also worried I will end up eating non-keto foods and mess up what I have achieved so far. How do I handle this, is it rude to ask my friend to cater to my needs for example?

Mariska, 42

It sounds like you are doing really great! I understand your concerns about the dinner party invitation. But there are in fact some good ways to address them so you have every opportunity to enjoy the company of your friends and the dinner itself. Here are my top tips:

Wait for the dinner party host to contact you

A good host usually asks all invited guests beforehand about (recently changed) dietary requirements. Things like food dislikes, allergies, drinks preferences etc. There is after all nothing more embarrassing than serving all meat dishes and discovering someone has turned vegetarian. Or loading the table with gluten and someone has recently been diagnosed celiac. Offering clams as an appetizer and a guest gets nauseous just by the sight of them. This obviously goes for drinks as well. It is wise to have a good selection of non-alcoholic drinks on hand and not presume everyone will want to drink wine.

It is really the host’s duty to accommodate all guests as much as possible so give him or her some time to get in touch with you first.

Okay so I have waited and not heard from the host…now what?

If the host does not contact you at all simply contact the host yourself at least three to four days beforehand. Tell them about your change in lifestyle and what this means in terms of your dietary restrictions and requirements. Make it clear this is about your health and not some ‘fad’ thing you are trying out. Also try not to be vague about it. Explain things clearly, keep in mind a lot of people have not heard of keto or are not well -informed.

Ask what is on the menu and see if it is something you can or want to eat. You can also suggest other simple dishes for the host to make if he or she shows willingness to accommodate you. Better yet, offer to help out by bringing one or two keto dishes you, and other guests, can eat.

Well this is getting awkward, there is really only going to be foods at the dinner party I do not want to eat and the host is not open to any of my suggestions!

In case of an unwilling host, the one that insists on serving pizza or pasta for example and frowns upon you bringing your own dishes, here is what you can do:

  • let the host know you will eat beforehand and go only to enjoy the company; there is nothing wrong with just having a drink and a conversation while everyone eats. It may feel a tad awkward at first but you are there for the company, not the food!
  • bring your own food, but again: do let the host know in advance;
  • in case of a host making it difficult for you to either bring your own food or be present without actually eating: politely decline the invitation and stay at home. This is about YOUR health and it is always okay to put your health first. Do consider making plans for a non-eating oriented activity with the host at some other time. It shows you still value the friendship and connection.

Hair loss on keto

When you switch to a keto lifestyle you will notice a lot of changes, both physical and mental. Most of these changes are truly positive. But I do get a fair amount of questions about some less positive, but often temporary, changes, one of them being hair loss. So here are a few quick pointers on how to deal with that if it occurs.

Keto is not always to blame

Hair loss often gets mentioned, and mostly by women, as a side-effect of weight loss on a keto lifestyle. One thing to keep in mind though is that hair loss can really occur with ANY type of rapid weight loss, not specifically with keto alone. This type of hair loss usually subsides when weight loss slows down to a normal rate.

Another thing to remember is that hair loss can just as well be attributed to a whole variety of other factors. Peri-menopause, thyroid issues, auto-immune diseases, onset of hereditary thinning of the hair (which can start at a very early age as well, not just later in life), stress, pre-existing deficiencies and even certain medications (click here for an informative video to learn which ones). It does not necessarily have to do with the change in your diet.

If you suspect low thyroid or hypothyroidism may be the root cause of your hairloss I strongly advise to get tested. Dr Ken Berry explains here what to look out for in terms of symptoms other than your hair loss. He also explains here how to get properly tested.

Are you eating enough?

I do find that the main reason women experience hair loss on a keto diet is, simply put, not eating correctly. There is a tendency, and again especially with women, to unnecessarily restrict calories, mainly because this is what a diet has always been associated with.
I can not stress enough though that while yes, keto has an appetite suppressing effect, you should only ever eat at a small to moderate deficit at most. And if you are following personal macros: always reach protein and fat daily. Restricting caloric intake to the extreme will result, even on keto, in the body directing all the nutrients to the life supporting functions of the body. And guess what: hair is not life supporting.

So whatever else may or may not be going on, the baseline to ensure healthy happy hair and to minimise hair loss is to always make sure you are:

  • not eating at a too large deficit;
  • eating adequate protein;
  • getting as much of your 25 grams net carbs as possible through healthy keto vegetables.

Supplements

Are you experiencing a not too excessive amount of hair loss without any obvious underlying causes? Try supplementing with biotin or collagen. On a side note: because a vitamin D deficiency is something that is extremely common and can contribute to hair loss I always recommend supplementing with it.

Iodine deficiency

On to a more serious, but also common, root cause of hair loss: iodine deficiency. Your thyroid gland needs iodine to produce the necessary thyroid hormones for growth and repair of damaged cells. But not just that: it is also needed for the support of a healthy metabolism. Low iodine levels for that reason may also account for your hair loss.

Keep in mind, again, this is not just something that is limited to those on a keto diet. As I said above, iodine deficiency is incredibly common in general. It is suspected 1 in 3 people are deficient in iodine to some degree. To know for sure if this is the case for you make sure an urine-iodine test is included in your thyroid panel. You can also choose to get this test done separately.

If you already suspect an iodine deficiency based on symptoms alone you may want to consider using Lugol’s iodine 2%. You could also start using an iodised LoSalt, although this is a less preferable method. You may also want to add iodine rich foods to your diet or use kelp tablets.

Keto food sources of iodine are:

  • seaweed
  • cod
  • plain yoghurt
  • iodised salt
  • shrimp
  • eggs
  • canned tuna

If you are at all worried you should always consult a doctor, especially if you suspect thyroid issues or other possible medical problems.

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The keto stall

Help, I am in a keto stall!’

I think I hear this at least ten times per day and the urgency with which it is said is very indicative of people not really understanding how weight-loss actually works. So here are my tips on how to deal with a keto stall.

What is a keto stall really?

A true stall is when you have not lost weight AND inches for a minimum of 4-6 weeks. What is important to keep in mind is that weight loss really never is linear. Stalls of weeks and months do happen. Biochemical-individuality, possible food sensitivities and hormones play important roles in this.

Each case is a case though and comparing to others is never of any use and can be very dispiriting. Also keep in mind that the number on the scale is not the only way to see change. Actual measurements or fit of clothes are far more reliable ways to keep an eye on your progress.

Now, a stall as described above does happen and I fully understand it can be frustrating. Luckily, there is usually a reason for it, and sometimes more than one. The trick is to learn how to identify possible causes AND how to fix them. So here goes:

Your keto stall is caused by wrong macros or not following macros at all

I can not emphasise this enough: at the start of your keto lifestyle following correct personal macros can ensure succes. It also allows you to adequately take control of your new way of eating. Your personal macros are intended as a starting point for a ketogenic diet for health first and foremost. Weight-loss comes second.

Individual tweaking of your macros are always a possibility after keto adaptation has taken place and when metabolic flexibility is a given. Remember, there is no such thing as a ‘one size fits all’ keto diet. But sticking to the the basic macro rules is important if you are just starting out.

What are these macro rules?

  • always follow correctly calculated personal macros in grams, not percentages, and always use a proper macro calculator to get those; choose a small to moderate deficit at most; a too large deficit will possibly lead to a damaged metabolism and thyroid issues;
  • the carb macro should be set at 25 gr net carbs and it is a limit; it is best to aim to get as much of them through green vegetables as they provide some vitamins and minerals for those of you who are not eating nose-to-tail animal protein. Going extremely low in carbs does NOT make for better ketosis or more weight-loss;
  • protein is a goal: meet that macro daily, do not go under or over by more than 10 gr on a regular basis;
  • do not exceed the fat macro if weight-loss is one of your goals. But because it is already a deficit on your TDEE (Total daily Energy Expenditure) I do strongly advise to meet it; if you honestly have trouble doing so just make sure you always keep it at minimum 60-65% of daily caloric intake but again, you should be aware you may possibly stall as a result of under-eating;
  • recalculate your macros with every 10 lbs lost and/or with a significant change in your activity level.

You are obsessing over the colour on a stick

This must also be a top 10 question: ‘My ketosticks suddenly show trace instead of high…what am I doing wrong?’.

Let me start by saying there is absolutely no reason why you should be measuring your ketone levels in the first place. You can be certain you are in ketosis if you stay between 20 – 30 gr net carbs consistently and if you eat moderate protein.

Plenty of energy, good sleep, lifting of mind fog, no cravings: all signs of ketosis. So unless you have very specific reasons to test ketones (medical reasons or due to high performance sports for example) there really is no need to test at all.

I do like to test, what should I look out for?

A lot of my coachees tell me they do like to test using the well-known strips for urine testing. I need to point out here they are rather unreliable and may even cause confusion. They do not work the same for everyone, only show ketones you waste, not used ones, they show fluctuating levels during the course of a day and they stop working for most people once keto adapted.

That said, do use them if you feel more confident at the start of keto seeing that colour on the sticks. I understand it is fun and can give a feeling of validation. Just keep in mind that the first box indicates ‘negative’, the other colours simply all mean ‘ketosis’. Darker does not mean ‘better’ ketosis though and the darkest purple may in fact indicate dehydration.

If you are interested in blood ketone testing and want to know more about how high blood ketones may not even be beneficial for weight-loss you can click here, here and here.

You are in a keto stall due to chronic stress

Show me one person that does not experience some kind of stress and I will take my hat off to you. Fact of the matter is stress is usually part of everyday life in one way or the other and that is to be expected. Too much stress though is another issue and can seriously impact both health and weight-loss.

High stress causes cortisol levels to rise. This in turn will raise your blood sugar levels and lower your ketone levels. And to combat chronically elevated blood sugar, your body will produce more insulin. And when that happens fat-burning will become an issue.

As you can imagine, reducing your stress levels is important. Things to think of:

  • try meditation techniques; meditation can be done anywhere anytime and there are also plenty of apps you can try. A lot of people I have spoken to about this are using Headspace, at home I use InsightTimer myself;
  • avoid too much cardio exercise: excessive cardio raises those cortisol levels! Have a read here to learn how to exercise on keto;
  • make sure to pay attention to your magnesium intake, the recommended daily amount is 300 – 500 mg;
  • step away from social media, turn those electronic devices off; invest some of your time in actual social interaction for a change or take up some more relaxing activities such as walking or reading.

You are not getting enough sleep

While good sleep is essential for everyone, for people doing keto with weight-loss in mind sleep is extra crucial: people who are sleep deprived or suffer from a circadian rhythm disorder (you can read more about that here) are more likely to stall their weight loss and even store extra body fat.

If you suffer from chronic sleep-deprivation your body:

  • produces less growth hormone;
  • is likely to have an impaired glucose metabolism;
  • decreases leptin, the hormone that signals satiety;
  • increases ghrelin, the hormone that tells the brain when we are hungry.

All the more reason to improve your sleep habits. Have a look here for tips on getting good sleep.

You overindulge in the nuts department

Ah nuts, what is not to like? Crunchy and savoury, it definitely is one of those foods people reach for when they need a quick fix. And the health benefits of nuts are certainly not to be discounted.
But aside from the fact you really should avoid snacking altogether (and more on that later on) nuts can be very easy to overeat.

As a result you overlook the fact they are quite calorie-dense and too much of them can also result in too many carbs. And there you go, stalling and sometimes even gaining is the result. This does not mean you should avoid them. Just make sure you portion them to fit your macros and do not mindlessly munch from the bag.

Your keto stall is caused by too much dairy

The majority of people on keto do enjoy dairy and find it is a very good source of fat. I do also get regular reports from people saying they tend to overeat dairy, especially cheese, and they stall as a result. So again, as with all foods, make sure any dairy you do eat fits your macros.

Another reason dairy may be the cause of a stall is when dairy protein causes insulin spikes you would otherwise not get from other sources of protein. If you are in a stall and you suspect this is the case you may want to consider reducing your consumption of certain high-protein dairy products like cheese and yogurt.

Your keto stall is caused by giving in to cravings

When doing keto correctly you should not have physical cravings and in most cases mental cravings should also not occur. But if they do, try to pinpoint possible causes, such as:

  • you are not eating enough, or simply put: you are under-eating on your macros;
  • you eat craving inducing foods such as substitute baked goods, low carb sweeteners, keto fruits etc; yes they may be okay for keto in general but they may still make you long for more;
  • stress, boredom, emotions, lack of sleep: if you find yourself mindlessly eating for these reasons you need to take a step back and deal with the underlying issues first;
  • you are not drinking enough water; dehydration may feel like a craving or actual hunger so keep your water intake up;
  • your electrolytes are out of whack: any imbalance in that department may lead to cravings;
  • you snack too much and this constant snacking increases your insulin spikes; always eat 2 or 3 healthy filling meals per day and simply do not snack.

You get blind-sided by goods that are labeled ‘keto’

Products like Slimfast, Atkins, Quest etc and the vast majority of store-bought products labeled with the words ‘low carb’ or ‘keto’ are just not suitable for the ketogenic lifestyle due to a variety of non-keto ingredients. And I promise you, these will surely hinder your weight-loss progress. A ketogenic diet, a.k.a. strict keto, is a lifestyle for health and ingredients always matter over carb count.

The word ‘keto’ unfortunately is not a legally protected term. As such it will be mis-used for profit by food companies simply jumping on the bandwagon. So always read labels, never assume something is keto just because it says so on the packaging, and put it back on the shelf if you spot those nasties.

You have a keto coffee addiction

Okay, I am the first to admit: a keto coffee can be very tasty. I like mine with coconut milk, cacao butter, a little bit of mct oil, raw cacao powder and hemp-seeds. And it is always fun to hear how other people ‘style’ theirs.

But here is why I generally advise against keto coffee, or bpc as it is often referred to: fat needs to be eaten as and/or with proper foods. The actual act of eating (chewing/swallowing/digesting) gives a strong signal of satiety. Drinking your fat in coffee (or tea) is said to suppress hunger but I in fact often hear the exact opposite: it causes cravings which leads to eating more than you want.

Keto coffee, if consumed at all, should be considered a meal, not as a drink with your meal. And if you find that keto coffee as a meal leaves you hungry a few hours after drinking it I recommend you skip it and eat proper foods instead.

You keep sipping those alcoholic beverages

Regular alcohol consumption may result in slower weight-loss and might even stop it altogether. The reason for this is simple: the body will always prefer to use alcohol over body fat for energy. If you find this is the case for you stop drinking for a while or drink less to see if that helps solve your stall. And one more thing to consider: alcohol increases appetite and causes dehydration, both not so good if you are trying to get out of a stall.

Want to know more about keto and alcohol? Have a read here.

You forget to pre-plan

As I said in the beginning, following correct macros, especially at the start of your keto lifestyle, is essential. And pre-planning your meals helps you to stay within those macros: you can easily adjust food types and portion sizes and it prevents those unpleasant surprises you get at the end of the day if you are only logging your food as you go.

So sit down with your tracker the night before and enter your meals for the following day. It may feel a bit strange at first but it is truly a matter of ‘practice makes perfect’ and helps prevent or solve that stall.

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Non-keto ingredients

Anyone starting a keto lifestyle knows: this is going to require a lot of label reading at the supermarket. Ingredients matter over carb count and just because something is low carb does not necessarily mean it is good for your health.

Coming off a standard high carb diet filled with processed and pre-packaged foods it is very important to learn what to look out for in terms of ingredients and not just nutritional facts. This is why I get send a lot of photos of product labels with the question ‘Is this actually keto?’ An avocado or a head of lettuce may not solicit such a question but deciding if a pre-packaged food is okay to purchase can be a true minefield.

Below you will find a list of the main non-keto culprits:

A
Acesulfame potassium (a.k.a. ace-k)
Aclame
Agave
Agave nectar
Agave Syrup
Alitame
Amaranth
Aspartame
Autolyzed yeast

B
Barbados sugar
Barley
Barley malt
Beet sugar
Blackstrap molasses
Bran
Bran fiber
Brown rice
Brown rice flour
Brown rice syrup
Brown sugar
Buckwheat
Bulgur
Burghul
Buttered syrup

C

Calcium caseinate
Cane juice (and crystals)
Cane sugar
Canola oil
Caramel
Carob syrup
Carrageenan
Cassava
Castor sugar
Chickpea flour
Cellulose
Cellulose gel
Cellulose gum
Confectioner’s sugar
Coconut palm sugar
Coconut water (extract)
Corn
Cornmeal
Corn oil
Corn starch
Corn sugar
Corn syrup (and solids)
Cottonseed
Cottonseed oil
Couscous
Crisco
Cyclamate

D
Dates
Date sugar
Dehydrated cane juice
Demerara sugar
Dextran
Dextrin
Dextrose
Diastatic malt
Diatase
Diglycerides
Disaccharides
Dried fruit
Durum

E
Einkorn
Emmer
Ethyl maltol
Evaporated cane juice

F

Farina
Farro
Fava bean
Fillers
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Florida crystals
Flour
Fructooligosaccharides
Fructose
Fruit concentrate
Fruit extract
Fruit juice
Fruit juice concentrate

G
Galactose
Glucitol
Glucose (and solids)
Glutamic acid
Glycerol
Golden sugar
Golden syrup
Graham flour
Granulated sugar
Grapeseed oil
Grape sugar

H
High fructose corn syrup (HFCS)
High maltose corn syrup
Hydrogenated anything
Hydrolyzed protein
Hydrolyzed vegetable protein
Honey

I
Icing sugar
Interesterified oils
Invert sugar
Isoglucose
Isomalt
Isomaltooligosaccharide (IMO)

J
Juice concentrate

K
Kamut

L
Lactitol
Lactose
Lentil
Levulose
Locust bean gum

M
Malt
Malt syrup
Maltitol
Maltodextrin
Maltose
Manioc
Mannitol
Maple syrup
Margarine
Mesquite
Millet
Modified food starch
Molasses
Monoglycerides
Monosodium glutamate
Msg
Muscovado sugar

N
Natural flavours
The term ‘natural flavours’ can be very misleading as it can also encompass unnatural additives. By law companies are allowed to do this. For more info on natural flavours click here
Neotame

O
Oat fiber
Oats
Orzo

P
Palm oil
Palm sugar
Panocha
Partially hydrogenated anything
Pea protein (and isolate)
Pectin
Phenylalanine
Polydextrose
Potassium sorbate
Potato starch
Protein isolates (milk, casein, soy & whey)
Powdered cellulose
Powdered sugar

Q
Quinoa

R
Rapadura
Raw sugar
Refiner’s syrup
Rice
Rice bran oil
Rice flour
Rice syrup
Rye

S
Saccharin
Saccharose
Safflower oil
Sago
Semolina
Sodium Caseinate
Soluble corn fiber
Sorbitol
Sorghum
Sorghum syrup
Soy
Soy lecithin
Soy protein (and isolate)
Spelt
Sucanat
Sucaryl
Sucralose (powder)
Sucrose
Sugar
Sunflower lecithin
Sunflower oil
Sweet ‘n Low

T
Tapioca
Tapioca fiber (a term to disguise the use of IMO)
Tapioca starch
Taro
Teff
Transglutaminase (T-enzyme)
Treacle
Triticale
Turbinado sugar

V
Vegetable glycerin
Vegetable shortening
Vegetable starch

W
Wheat
Wheat berries
Whey protein (and isolate)
White flour
Wild rice

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